Saturday, May 24, 2008

Grow Old Together, The Best is Yet to Come

JUST THE WAY YOU ARE (Billy Joel)

Don't go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don't imagine you're too familiar
And I don't see you anymore                       
I wouldn't leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I'll take the bad times
I'll take you just the way you are

Don't go trying some new fashion
Don't change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take 'till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you, and that's forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.

Drum Role Please
 
 
Tomorrow Bob and I will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary with a blessing at a Mass in St. Joseph's church here in Florida.  We were married in Beverly Ma. at the St. Mary's Star and Sea Church, on May 25, 1958, many moons ago!
 
We meet the night before my sixteenth birthday at a local teen dance.  He asked me to go for a ride the following Sunday and I said I would only go if he bring a date for my best friend.  He did and they will celebrate their 50th in September.   The rest is history.
 
After the children left the nest, and moved out of state, it was time to plan our new adventure after retirement.  And what an adventure it has been.  We sold  or gave away almost everything we had, including our home and a camp in Maine.   Before we retired we purchased a motorhome and started gathering interesting information on things and places we would like to see.   It has been eight years and we have no regrets.  We have pretty well seen ever thing we wanted to, except Oregon and Washington state.   Maybe next summer.
 
So here we are, fifty years later.  We are lucky, we laugh every day, still kiss each other when one is going out, have  no serious medical issues  and still enjoy each others company.   We don't know why we are so blessed, but we thank the Lord for each other every day.   Life is good.
 
PS      Happy anniversary to our friends Gary and Shirley tomorrow too.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a great story of how you met. I am so glad you are still having fun together.
I am so happy for you. Congratulations!!! You guys are doing it right. I love that you are traveling and enjoying your retirement. That is why I started reading your journal. It is our dream to do the same thing one day.
Have a great day tomorrow. Happy 50th!!!!

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to add that I really enjoyed looking at your pictures.
You guys look so happy together.
Trish

Anonymous said...

Happy Anniversary!!!!
Congratulations on 50 years!!
I loved the pictures....
Linda :)

Anonymous said...

Happy Anniversary!! WOW 50 years is a LONG time! You were such a beautiful bride! Absolutely gorgeous! Loved the Prom picture, too! You looked like a princess in that one.
Loved your pictures...thank you for sharing them.
Pam

Anonymous said...

I loved looking at all you super pictures ,you certainly were a lovely young couple and have grown together even more so over the years, may God Bless you both ,and congratulations on fifty marvelous years ,and best wishes for many more happy healthy years together ..love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Oh, it was so much fun going through the pictures.  Thank you for posting them!

Happy, Happy 50th!  May you celebrate many more happy, healthy years together.  

Anonymous said...

Oh, what wonderful pictures, and many many CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR 50TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY.

Take care

Yasmin
xx

Anonymous said...

Oh that is so exciting!   We are approaching our SECOND anniversary!   So a big congrats to you two!!  : )

Nancy

Anonymous said...

Awesome!  Wow, how fantastic for you two.

Huge congratulations and I wish you many more fabulous years!

Deb

Anonymous said...

You two are a hoot and a half!  Happy Anniversary!  May you have 50 more years together.

Anonymous said...

Ok, you've been married 8 more years than I have been alive?  Wow, I am tired of ME after 42 years :-0.  You 2 are good.  Major Congrats. ~Mary

Anonymous said...

Congrats!!!

Anonymous said...

Wow... that is awesome! You are an inspiration to me and my hubby...

be well,
Dawn
http://journals.aol.com/princesssaurora/CarpeDiem/

Anonymous said...

what a wonderful life you have!
Love
Marti

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful album-----how wonderful, the times you have shared with one another---much love to the two of you my sister, & brother-in-law---may the times together in the future hold even more happy days---CAROL